Long distance relationship

[arabian_eyes]

im half way across the world and i've been away from him for just under 2 months and i still got like another 6 weeks to go we talk on the phone and at night on msn but lately he seems really off with me and sometimes it's really really good. it's propa hard cuz i feel like im making all the effort with him and he doesn't care n e more what do i do! how do i make it work?

[makeupjunkie99]

try telling him and only try talk to him 2x a week or so.

[arabian_eyes]

yeh i'll try the 2x a week thing even tho i'll find it really hard lol thanks for ur help xx

[ashjenx710]

It is hard for anybody in this situation because I am only about 5-6 hours away from my boyfriend in college and we arejust really tryin....I say if you want to be with you need to talk about you issue...See if he is willing to put in more effort for you all's relationship. Don't wait until you get fed up with his mess....YOU WILL be ready to let it go. FOREAL. Just talk to him and inform him how you feel!

[Smiley930]

yes I agree with the other ladies. Communication is key. He isn't gonna know how you fell until you tell him. I'm sure after you talk about it you guys can make it work.

[Makeup-Forum.com]

2x a week is not enough. He will start forgetting about you if you do that. I'm in a long distance relationship myself (about 5000 miles) and trying to talk and spend time together every day is key if you want it to work for a long time.

[SamanthaSweetie(#).!]

Wait till the guy makes the effort with you, all the girls always make the effort.
wait till he contacts you, i know its going to be hard, but it should always turn out the best (:

xx

[Jennie]

I wouldnt speak to him until he contacts you so that shows if he still wants to talk or maybe you should just come out with what your thinking .

[makeupjunkie99]

yeh i'll try the 2x a week thing even tho i'll find it really hard lol thanks for ur help xx

No problem hun.

[arabian_eyes]

thank you girls so much for all your help i done the thing where i didnt call him then he started to make the effort again thanks for yout advice jst gonna work hard on the communication issue much love xxxx