help confused

[aaammm]

My boyfriend just told me he asked another girl on a date,a while ago..... it didn't go anywhere.

I knew something was up about 10days ago , he was acting funny to the point where I knew something was wrong. I asked a few times if he was ok. And he said yes so I dropped it. He was being extreemly sweet and nice almost to overkill (meanwhile he was very quite and sighing occasionally). I finally ask if he was doing something funny and found out he contacted this girl who is the group slut....not my label for her. I was angry, and he said it meant nothing so i fummed and then dropped it.

Now for about. 3Days he wont touch me/he recoils......today i called him on it. He said he dosent deserve to touch me......i was confused.

He then asked if guys hit on me or make advances....and I said yes, I try to be truthful. But I also said I never respond To such advances,
These are from his friends and coworkers ect guys will hit on anyone. So he asked for specific names of his friend hitting on me.......and then says he asked this girl out.(he said it wasn't dirty/or derogatory) but he dosent know why he asked her.... so I. Then asked if he wanted to be in a relationship and he said he dosent know.
What the hell is he doing?

[J3ssiGurl]

He's being an idiot, that's what he's doing. He is being completely selfish trying to be with more then 1 girl at the same time. In my opinion, if I were in your shoes, I would dump his ass ASAP and find someone who will respect and treat you right.

"Once a cheater ... ALWAYS a cheater ...".

[Sunshinesmiles]

I know it will seem hard, but you may have to step away fromt he situation. When men say that they are confused in situations like this, you will only spend your time waiting around meanwhile they backwards and forwards to the other person under the banner of confusion.

Don't allow this boyfriend who is only thinking of himself at this moment to take away your peace of mind. If he doesn't know whether he wants to be in a relationship, then step away from him until he does know.

It's hard but it will be for the best. that also means not pretending to be friends after and letting him call you. That usually sorts situations out. By not showing him that that is a consequence to his actions has told him that you will settle for his behaviour.

[aliceFTW]

J3ssiGurl & Sunshinesmiles are right.

How long have you guys been dating? He's cheating on you, I'd dump him. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't have asked out another girl.

[devilmafia11]

he is not sincere with you.