Whats going through his head?

[dragonfly]

I was with my boyfriend for three years, we had lived together for eight month. We had talked about being engaged and children. He used to cry he loved me that much saying I was the love of his life,, he wanted to grow old with me. Four month ago he came home and said he was leaving me because I constantly nag and moan and go on. We left our home I went back home to parents and he got himself a flat. I did the wrong thing by contacting him constantly as I couldnt understand why he could be so cold with me and ignore me constantly. I then got diagnosed with post traumatic stress because of what had happened. And I did something stupid. I knew my friends Social network password, so I logged in as her and messaged him and his twin brother asking them to help, and realise it was a mistake. They found out and first off I denied it (Looking stupid and delusional) But then admitted it. I was just so desperate for him to see He had made a big mistake. Since he left he has openly said he really loves me so much but isn't going to be with me!? Why is he saying this? Surely if he loves me that much 1. he wouldnt have left me and 2. he couldnt live without me? He has now blocked my number because of the social networking thing! But I honestly didn't mean any harm and was so messed up. Will he ever come back to me do you think? If he loves me. Im 25 and hes 29. I don't want to let go. Something inside me tells me not to. I've spoken with his mum and she doesnt know anything but feels we should be together. There is noone else involved. He just sits in his flat playing his playstaion according to his mum.

[organicgirl]

I am sorry for your situation, maybe you should give it some time ansee what happens. Men get scared at their future
sometimes, and he may need some space. What do you mean by him saying you nag him? He sits at home playing
playstation? Does he work? I really think you should give him time, if he doesn't come back then that means
that maybe there's something better out there for you. I know you don't want to hear that, but it does happen.
best of luck to you...

[dragonfly]

I am sorry for your situation, maybe you should give it some time ansee what happens. Men get scared at their future
sometimes, and he may need some space. What do you mean by him saying you nag him? He sits at home playing
playstation? Does he work? I really think you should give him time, if he doesn't come back then that means
that maybe there's something better out there for you. I know you don't want to hear that, but it does happen.
best of luck to you...

I'm not sure what he means by nagging him He says I go on all the time, and do his head in. I used to nag about him spending too much time on his playstaion. He has a job yes. Now he has moved out and in his own flat his mum has told me he isn't going out drinking or anything hes just sitting in on his playstaion. I dunno, its been four month now, could there still be hope?

[organicgirl]

I'm not sure what he means by nagging him He says I go on all the time, and do his head in. I used to nag about him spending too much time on his playstaion. He has a job yes. Now he has moved out and in his own flat his mum has told me he isn't going out drinking or anything hes just sitting in on his playstaion. I dunno, its been four month now, could there still be hope?

I guess you have to be alittle patient with him...4 months isn't that long, I know its seems like forever to you, but let him do his thing
and see if he comes around...don't beg him or anything, you worth more then that...just go on with life one day at a time. So he stays
at home with his playstation but doesn't go out according to his mom? will she tell you the truth? he is her son afterall...
You should go out and have a good time, you may meet someone else ya know!! The playstation thing for me would be annoying..
thank god my husband doesnt have one, I would have thrown it out...we are all kids at heart but when your an adult you need to
act like one, and that means put the playstation aside and hang out with your girlfriend, wife, hubby whatever. Maybe he felt
like you mothered him by telling him not to play? or he felt like you nagged him like a mother? you won't know until he comes around
and you can both chat, if not I am sure your a strong women, let it go and it may lead you to something better!